Hello..

So, I'm brand new to this supposedly dying phenomena called "blogging", but that's all right with me. I just like the idea that I'm sharing my thoughts with other people, and someone may find this and agree (or disagree), but the sharing of thought would occur. That's pretty rad, no? I think so. I've got class and labs.. And not to be forgotten, a butt load of other things to do, so I'm going to bail.

Peace. (^_^)v

Mengapa Wanita ingin di mengerti…

Salam buat sumer….
korang mesti pernah dengar lagu tu kan?
Wanita ni fitrahnye lembut pada perwatakan dan cukup sensitif dari segi perasaan…

Nak tau tak ape sbnrnye yg pompuan inginkn dari lelaki pada masa2 tertentu? mgkn kkdg dia akan bagitau awk terus terang.. tp kkdg dia tak bagitau tapi sebenarnye dia sangat perlukan kamu. Contohnye :

bile sy marah :
sy nak awak memahami emosi sy dan awk kene kaji kenapa sy marah…mungkin awk ade sakitkan hati sy @ ade perkara yg menyinggung perasaan sy.. baik awk fikir balik kata2 @ perbuatan awk. sy marah bukan bermakna  sy tak syg awk…sbb  syg la sy tegur..

bile sy asik miscall, msg awk :
tu tandenye sy rindu kat awk.. dan sy mengharapkan awk dpt bg perhatian pd sy kejap..(tp kalo bleh… cari mase  yg boleh kite borak lame.@ spend mase together. sy ade banyak perkara nk bagitau dan kongsi ngan awk..)

kalo sy mendiamkn diri slps beberapa miscall :
sy letih dh nk cari awk.. pandai2 la awk cari saya dan pujuk sy nanti.

bile sy moody :
awk jgn wat lawak bodoh yg boleh wat sy marah awk.. sy hanye perlu awk memahami keadaan sy dengan memberi sokongan pd sy jika sy mengadu pd awk tentang masalah..jgn ckp sy emo ke  ape..kesabaran awk amat diperlukan dan tenangkan sy ye…

bile sy mngadu sy sakit :
sy nk awk bg perhatian dan amik berat tentang sy. kalo htr sy gi klinik lg bagus..atau buatkan sy bubur..hehe

bile saya mengadu itu ini :
sbnyr sy tertekan… boleh tak awk jd pendengar sy? jika sy mintak tolong, baru awk bg cdgn..

bile sy hampir putus asa :
beri saya semangat, kata2 peransang agar sy kembali  bersemangat…(hope awk dpt bersabar dgn karenah sy)

bile sy ngadu sy letih :
ade 2 keadaan :
1)  sy sgt letih…bg saya masa untuk berehat..
2) sy letih buat sume sorg.. awk leh tlg sy tak? tolong ringankan beban sy.. kalo tak leh bantu keje sy, tolong belikan mkn ke…

bile sy majuk    :
ade 2 keadaan :

1) kalo majuk syg,
awk kene la jangan putus asa pujuk.. kkdg sbb awk tak bg perhatian, awk bz..tu sbb sy majuk…baik awk mintak maaf dan yg penting sedar pe silap awk supaya awk tak ulang balik..mgkn awk kene bg hadiah atau ucap kata2 yg indah untuk sejukkan hati sy

2) kalo majuk sbb gaduh yg besar…
mesti awk ade buat silap @ sakitkan hati sy.. awk kene selidik pe salah awk, sedar dan mintak maaf mgkn sy dh hilang kepercayaan pd awk -so, awk kene la buat sesuatu untuk mengembalikan kepercayaan itu.. dan mgkn juga makan masa.. tp sy nk tengok kesungguhan dan usaha awk..
mungkin yg lain org lain boleh tambah…

p/s : mgkn ni mcm sebelah pihak je(pmpn).. tp just sbg panduan utk kaum adam dan meluahkan ape yg tersirat di hati perempuan...

What guys think bout love….

More often than not, I get cornered by friends — girls — once madly in love with their boyfriends but now swear they hate their  guts. I will end up becoming the emotional punching bag for these distraught women.

Asked what brought about the massive “paradigm shift” in their feelings, these girls would say that they did not get a favourable response when they asked their boyfriends “What are we?” after a few weeks of dating.

Indeed, status is important. It is everything. For status, nations are willing to go to war. Women, and sometimes men, would go to great lengths to have the status of their relationships defined.

What is the definition of a relationship after dating for a certain period of time?

Social media sites such as Facebook have a convenient method for people to define their relationships. One can change the status in a split second, and sometimes without much thought. Many don’t dwell on its significance. One can be “single”, “in a relationship”, or leave the status as “it’s complicated” on Facebook. But if a guy’s status remains “single” after dating someone for a while, the girl he is seeing might become frustrated and start having doubts.

But truth be told, contrary to what most women think, guys are not insensitive creatures. We are just practical.

And our actions often speak louder than words.  Men are creatures of habit. Observe the way we treat you. Does your man lend you moral support? Is he reliable? Does he leave you in the lurch in times of need?

I believe that relationships should never be divided into stages. If you think your man is delaying commitment then ask yourself, “Am I happy with him?”

Relationships are not meant to be perfect. Conflict is healthy. It can strengthen a relationship if resolved properly.

Always ask yourself why you embarked on this journey with this guy in the first place.

Women must also know this — as much as a guy might love you, it will dissipate if you keep on forcing him to do things against his will. Every time we resign ourselves to your wishes or accede to them, resentment will build up.

There are the men who abhor the word “commitment”, but most just want to know more about the women they are going out with before they choose to settle down and make her the mother of their children. Until then, these men might “multi-date”. During this period, they might keep a certain distance and be non-committal.

Bear with them. If they see a future with you, they will bare all in time.